Month: February 2010
Ferocity
I have mentioned before the different D/s dynamic in my relationship with W and my relationship with Ad. With W, it is about control, whether that is through the more subtle emotional control that runs like a current beneath and through all our interactions, or the more direct physical control–the…
HNT- Birthday Present
W is always trying to get me to post pictures of my girlparts. I dunno why, maybe he likes them?? But I seldom do: cha cha shots, as a friend calls them, are just not my thing. “Leave a little mystery,” as my mother always used to say. But, what…
Fucking with Rings
The guys talk about them needing to have willpower, but it’s really not them. It’s me. With both piercings, the two and the four, from the moment I felt that first pinch and then, the amazing slide of that long needle piercing my flesh, I was hot and wet and…
HNT – Vegas Rope
From my recent trip to Vegas. I love silhouettes, and really like the way the light from the window almost makes the rope glow. For more pictures and notes about my trip, check out my Vegas Travel Blog post in A Poly Life! Be sure to check out the other…
Shave Me
One of the first kinky things my The Ex ever did to me was to shave me. I didn’t think of it as “kinky” then, I just thought he was kind of weird to want to do it, and only let him do it every once in awhile. I know,…
Chitty chitty bang bang
Conversation with my daughter while shopping the other night: Me (eyeing a sexy red dress in the shop window): “I love that dress! Let’s go in and see if they have it in my size.” She follows me in, protesting, “You don’t need that dress, Mummsie. You really shouldn’t buy…
Willpower
“You need to go home with whichever guy has the most restraint,” my piercer said, looking first at W, then at Ad, after I told her how poorly I had followed her “healing piercings correctly” instructions last time. We broke every rule but one the first time. I begged Ad…
Chained
We had just spent the evening with a new couple: dinner, drinks and talk; later, play. He hadn’t hurt me, maybe because I was planning to get the new piercings, maybe because he didn’t want to scare or shock them; I don’t know which. But I went to bed unmolested…
e[lust] #6
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