Inspired by Rayne over on Insatiable Desire, I have decided to join in the 30 Days of Kink meme that’s been going around as a way to spur my own creativity a bit. I like the idea of daily writing, but this space is a little less conducive to that, since I am not exactly chronicling my daily life, but sharing specific episodes. Daily writing works better on APL, being more of a journal space, and so I found the 30 Days of Truth prompts to be helpful in that regard.
In any case, I’m going to go ahead and start posting my answers to the 30 Days of Kink, not daily, but as the mood strikes and as it makes sense to me to do or as the prompts spur cogitations on my own life and experiences. I’ll update this list as I post each piece.
For a list of others who are participating, scroll to the bottom. If you are participating and would like to be added to the list, shoot me an email at piecesofjade at gmail dot com.
The 30 Days of Kink
Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction.)
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Check these other kinky bloggers to see how they are doing on the 30 Days of Kink:
- Rayne at Insatiable Desire
- Cinnamon at Seeing My Own Reflection
- ScarletLotus at Purveyor of Pleasure
- Gabe and Elizabeth at Pornocracy
- Alan and Michelle at He Says, She Says
- Nimue at Nimues World
- She at She’s That Kind of Girl
- K at Deviante
- Rose at The Rose Garden
- Evey at Voyeur on Display
- Imp at PervertedImp.com
- Molly’s Daily Kiss
- Kisses and Kinks
- Sierra’s Lil Corner
- Switchback Girl
- The Redheaded Slut