Bowling Night

Ready for work on bowling night. Had to go into my office but wanted to be cute for the Hypnotist later at bowling, so, though my dress felt a little short for a conservative Catholic organization, I decided to wear it anyway. I’m so tired of toeing the line, being…

Being Jade

This past weekend I attended a munch with the Hypnotist. It is a munch for folks interested in hypnokink, which I am, but that I have avoided attending with him until this last one because, hell, I don’t know. I’m shy, and awkward, and anxious about having to make small…

Be Still My Heart

Or, I guess, don’t be still, as that is the entire purpose of the AED – Automated External Defibrillator – to make your heart pound again! (I had to look up what the letters stood for, though I understood what the apparatus is for.) This Scavenge Hunt location was, again,…

Pee Correction

We don’t have many rules or protocols as such, at least not yet. But one that we have had pretty much from the beginning – and not by my instigation – is that when we are together I have to ask to use the bathroom. I’m usually good about it…

Dog Days / Blog Days

I have no idea if I have participated in the “Blogs Days of Summer” meme before, though the title is familiar so it’s possible I have. Or maybe I just recall seeing it around the blogosphere, I dunno. In any case, here I am giving it a go, because I…

A Mexican Upskirt

I’m in Puerto Vallarta for five days with my daughter. We came here 12 years ago when she was 18 and we are reprising the trip now for her 30th, even going on the same hike from Boca de Tomatlan to Las Animas beach on Tuesday. I have been tasked…

The Writing Task

I have been tasked with writing/posting here three times a week. It is not an onerous task (in fact it is one I am quite grateful for and delighted to be tasked with) but it does challenge me. I’m trying to remember how I used to write so much when…

The Casual Panty-Check

He opens the passenger side door for me. I slide in and get myself situated while he shuts the door and gets into the driver side. (An aside: this door-opening thing: it’s not just gentlemanly, though it is certainly that. And it’s not a “rule” – he says it’s a…

One Hot Weekend

Oh that could be taken so many ways. This past weekend, it can be taken in all the ways. Hot House. The A/C went out at our house Thursday and we couldn’t get it serviced until Tuesday, after what were forecasted to be 95+ degree temps over the 4th. We…

Kinky Bucket List Revisited

Someone on Twitter recently made a comment about my Kinky Bucket List. Honestly, it’s been a minute since I originally wrote that – I posted it in 2012! Ten years? Whew! There’s still a lot of things I haven’t done, and a lot of things that still resonate with me,…