Shoes

It never fails. It’s almost always a Wednesday, because that’s the day I go right from work to the Hypnotist’s, so we can get a bite to eat and I can get changed for bowling. But I like to dress up for him, which – surprise – is not always…

A Week in the Life

Alright, not quite a week, but close. I woke up early today…slept poorly…weird dreams about a post-apocalyptic world and trying to get movie tickets, adopting a wildcat kitten, trying to escape a cult. Should have gotten up right then and worked out or gone for a run (it’s beautiful out…

Perspective

There’s a lot of things that I like about this image, one of which is the surprise of getting to see my bird from a fresh perspective. Sometimes I forget he’s there, my hummingbird, and seeing him is a jolt – a nice one: “Ooh pretty!” I like my shoulders…

Business in the front, party in the back

And oh what a party it was! I wore this dress, and some a-MAZ-ing pink stilettos that actually GLOWED in the dark, to a play party with both my guys Saturday night. I got some lovely marks and had a load of fun. I think the guys did too. Being…

Weekend Happenings

This sunburn, on top of these bruises… These cane marks… And this smile… All happened this weekend. I planned to do an actual write-up on the actual happenings, but my laptop died and I’m too lazy to go downstairs and get the cord – so I’m writing on my phone.…

It’s been a few heady days.

I’m up at 5 a.m. because I realized, late late last night, that I haven’t written or posted anything since…Sunday? I’d say I’m just crazy busy (and I am!) but it’s not entirely that. I had time last night when I could have sat myself down and written something. And…

Anticipation 3

Being poly/having multiple partners – if one doesn’t live with both/all – is (often) a game of anticipation. It can be both sweet and, while maybe not bitter, at least frustrating: a delicious ache of longing for the one(s) you aren’t with, even as you enjoy the time you are…

Collage

I already almost forgot to post today – that’s how out of practice I am! But I was saved by K, my…I don’t know what to call him, yet…reminding me to do so. So what is this that K and I are doing? We’re seeing each other, and kind of…

Then this happened…

My travel day from Mexico was something of a clusterfuck. The morning had started nice – M (my Canadian) and K and I had coffee and snuggles and played a little and talked and it was, truly, a lovely goodbye, if one can say that about saying goodbye to people…

Celebrating Life

I have so many reasons to celebrate lately. It feels a bit like bragging: “Oh my life is so wonderful” and I feel guilty about being happy when things are so damn hard for a lot of people, but I have just gone through a shite time, and things have…