30 Days of Kink: Day 4 – Early Signs

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? I was such a shy, withdrawn teenager.  All I thought about was my horse & reading. And boys, but less so.  Kink would have been right outta there. There were two things that might have indicated where my…

Beautiful Bird…

“Mon bel oiseau, encore plus belle lorsque tu es en cage.” My beautiful bird, even more beautiful when you’re in a cage. That is how Google translates the subject line of a blogpost I recently ran across–one in which some of my cage photos were pictured.  I tracked it back…

Some thoughts on submission

Sometimes I forget in the middle of things that I am a submissive, and that part of that, the “submitting” part,  is simply doing what he wants, regardless of if it is personally working for me, because it makes him happy.  It makes him hard, it makes him excited, it…

e[lust] #16

Photo courtesy of Janie Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #17? Start with…

e[lust] #6

HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It Too Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be…

Body Image and Flaws on APL

As some of you may have noticed, I didn’t post an HNT this week. I really did get too busy, but if I am to be honest, there was also another reason. I wanted to participate in fellow blogger Another Suburban Mom’s “Flaws” HNT theme, but I just wasn’t brave…

Meme Fun on APL

I don’t usually do memes, for the reasons stated in my post, but this one was fun and has lots of little tidbits I thought would be fun to share.  Also, since this blog gets read more than APL, I wanted to put something on here to direct you to…

New Posts on APL

I’ve had a couple of new posts over on APL, if you haven’t had a chance to see them: Don’t Postpone Joy in which I talk about the transience of life, and Days Go By, which touches on the same topic but also has a panty picture. (grin) Go on…

New on APL (and elsewhere…)

Two new posts over at A Poly Life: Of Fog and Safety and my G-rated HNT. Go on over and take a peek. 😉 Also check out this post about being responsible for your own shit: Just…thinking by Insatiable Desire. I harp a lot on taking responsibility for own issues/problems.…

Bendy Red

A while ago I bought several toys just for me. At the time, I was having a lot of solo-sex, because A’s and my schedule was screwy, and he’s a morning sex guy and I am an afternoon-sex girl, and a lot of times the only time we saw each…