Hardware

What do… and all have in common? They can all be purchased at a hardware store, of one sort or another. And why is this important, you ask? Well, it got my sex-engine choo-chooing again. That’s pretty freakin’ important, right? (Okay, it’s important to me. But whatever.) It happened this…

An Update

On Day 4 of the cleanse, and thought I’d poke my head in here and give an update. 🙂 Also, cuz I know you are all dying to know, an update on how I’m surviving without W here. And the answer is: I’m doing surprisingly well, on both counts. Oh,…

Alphabet Challenge – N is for…

New Orleans, of course, with St. Louis Cathedral in the background… And for a paddlewheeler named The Natchez. As a special bonus, I managed a Scavenger Hunt while we were out there fooling around, though there were so many people coming and going (we were right outside a ferry terminal)…

A Cleanse & a Challenge

My posts for the next week or so, when I write one (and unless W tells me to post something else) are likely to be pretty boring. W is out of town visiting family for the next week or so, and I am attempting a 7 day fall cleanse/detox.  It’s…

Death by Orgasm

“So what are you thinking about for the weekend schedule?” he asked in an email. Hmm… This is what my perfect weekend would look like: I come in and my collar is locked around my neck. I’m told to put high heels and slutwear on, and then allowed to work…

Sinful Sunday – Patterns & Pokies

Sinful Sunday is all about the image. This image is a bit of a tease. What caused that pretty pattern? Something not-so pretty. (For a more interesting perspective – and if you’re curious if I actually enjoy this shit – check out the click-thru. It’s pretty obvious exactly how I…

Assisted Yoga – Tree

In honor of my post about the connection between meditation and subspace, I am posting this series of pictures of one of my favorite asanas, Tree pose, or Vrksasana. Because of an old back injury that has caused my hips to be permanently out of alignment, I have balance issues…

The Link Between Yoga, Meditation & BDSM

I was in class this evening (yoga) with the Missy, and our instructor was doing some guided meditation. As her voice lulled me into a deep quietude, I felt myself doing that thing that I do when I fall into subspace: I call it “falling into myself.” And in falling…

Of Sex with Strangers, Triggers & Doing the Right Thing

There’s something to be said for playing with partners that know you, know your body and your triggers, know how to push you in just the right way and what buttons to push; that know how to please you (even when that pleasing involves some not-so-pleasing things.) A lot of…

Alphabet Challenge: M is for Mississippi

We almost missed the Letter M for the Alphabet Challenge (the rules of the Challenge, per the Rope on the Run group on Fetlife that hosts it, state that you can only post each letter’s photos to the group during that letter’s week.)  It wasn’t that we didn’t have plenty…